Beautiful Little Pagans

This piece appeared in the Church Resources Newletter which appears daily = five time per week. It is a free subscription.

For Christ's sake, will the Church please wake up!

I am not being blasphemous. I am making a prayerful plea and at the same time venting my frustration at what I have suddenly realised is perhaps the real reason seven of my eight grandchildren remain beautiful little pagans. No offence to all the other beautiful pagans out there – God made us all.
But what do you do when you have tried to pass on your faith to your children and they chose to not do the same to their children/your grandchildren?

I read the article you mentioned (Bill Farrelly) just before mass started this evening. I was going to give a response and ask to have it kept private, but having written this now I don't really care either way - I am most interested in what Jesuits in particular think about my opinions (because I trust them and have been educated by them over many years), and not the general population. I mentioned to James O'Brien of St  Francis Xavier that I thought I was an extremist (half jokingly) - but I am really not sure because I don't actually know what other people think - most of my high level opinions were derived theoretical/experientially and not from other people directly - I was actually surprised the other day when I received some direct confirmation by a friend's wife that what I was doing was right. So, if you have time to read further, here is what I wrote:

I was greatly moved by Mr. Farrelly's piece which I read in the Parish Bulletin this morning. I have a particular niece who was baptised into the Church and whose Godfather I am. She has a beautiful special needs daughter who is almost 4 years of age and who has never been baptised. My niece and her husband have decided very firmly that my great-niece will not be attending a Catholic school.  My niece herself no longer practises her Faith.  She and her husband, not a Catholic, and their daughter live abroad.  I try to visit them once a year, and it saddens me greatly to see my great-niece growing up deprived, as Mr. Farrelly so correctly points out, of the opportunity to decide, in responsible adulthood, whether or not to continue in the practice of the Faith.

 

The article ‘Beautiful Little Pagans’ resonated very strongly with me.  Over the years I have asked many family members and friends about their drift away from the Church.  Overwhelmingly the answer has been that they are no longer really sure that they believe either in God or in life after death.  So why continue going to church?  So they stopped going and the sky didn’t fall, and they all continue to be beautiful good people.